Read messages
without the
emotional spike.

ExConnect acts as a professional buffer. We receive your co-parenting emails, human assistants refine them for neutrality, and you only see what matters via WhatsApp. No more high-conflict landing.

Get Started How it works
Person reading a message calmly

Most conflict doesn't come from intent. It comes from how messages are sent.

When emotions run high, even well-meaning messages can land wrong.
A single poorly-worded text can spiral into weeks of tension.

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Messages sent in frustration Reactive replies written in the heat of the moment
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Tone misunderstood Words that feel neutral to you can read as hostile to them
Ex Connect
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ORIGINAL
"You're late AGAIN. Don't even bother coming to pick up the kids if you can't respect my time. This is typical of you."
SOFTENED
"I noticed you're running late. Please let me know your ETA so I can manage the children's expectations and schedule."
ORIGINAL
"You never consider how this affects me, and every conversation makes it worse."
SOFTENED
"I'd like to find a better time to talk. Our recent conversations haven't been very productive."
Your reply...
"The anxiety just...
vanished."
— Sarah L., Co-parent

A calm layer between you and the message.

We process every word through a professional human filter before it ever reaches your screen.

Incoming messages

Before you see it, your assistant reads the raw email and rewrites it using neutral, factual language. You receive the softened version via WhatsApp.

Outgoing messages

You message what you want to say to your assistant via WhatsApp. You will receive a neutral and a firm version of your original message. You make your selection with a thumbs up, and your assistant replies to your co-parent via email.

Incoming Message Flow

Your co-parent emails you Via an email account you create specifically for co-parenting
Assistant Analysis Conflict points are identified and removed
Neutral Notification You receive a neutral message via WhatsApp. Clear & factual, not emotional.

Outgoing Message Flow

You compose / reply via WhatsApp Type what's on your mind
Assistant removes the heat Your assistant replies with a softer version via WhatsApp
Final Approval You approve with a thumbs up, and the email is sent to the co-parent
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Email arrives

You choose whether to view the original email. Some people find these upsetting and opt not to.

02

Human assistant refines

A dedicated assistant reads the email, removes the heat and messages a neutral version to you via WhatsApp.

03

You reply via WhatsApp

You reply to your assistant. They offer a neutral and a firm variation. You make your selection with a thumbs up, and your assistant replies to your co-parent via email on your behalf.

Designed for family
composure.

We don't use AI to guess your intent. We use trained humans to ensure nuance and safety.

Human support. Not automation.

Trust is built on human understanding, not algorithms. Our assistants are trained in de-escalation techniques.

100%
Human review
Every single message is processed by a real person. No "smart bots" or generic AI responses.
0%
Auto-sending
We never send anything without your explicit approval. You maintain total control of your voice.
256-bit
Private & Secure
Your conversations are private and confidential. Data is encrypted and stored according to strict security protocols.

One plan.
Everything included.

Simple, transparent pricing for total peace of mind.

Human-Assisted Communication Support
$ 99
AUD /mo
  • Up to 3 message exchanges per day
  • Dedicated human communication assistant
  • Fast turnaround (typically 5 – 15 minutes)
  • You approve every message before it's sent
  • Avoid sending messages you'll regret
  • Private and confidential
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No commitment. Cancel anytime.

Take control before the message is sent.

Regain your peace of mind and improve the well-being of your children through clear, calm communication.

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